A LADs Lady is honorable, independent, responsible, reasonable, appreciative, caring, supportive, communicates well, dignified and exercises common sense.

A LADs Lady strives to:

  • question deeply
  • listen intently
  • enable communication
  • care for the health, well being and emotional security of the submissive/slave
  • be fair and reasonable
  • praise, comfort and console
  • appreciate and takes note of their sub/slave’s devotion and deeds
  • exercise honesty and integrity (says what she means and means what we says)
  • help our fellow LADs members when they are in need
  • enable and direct positive growth of the sub/slave and relationship
  • set limits where there are none for the safety of all concerned
  • know when and how to stretch limits, for the growth of the submissive, always being mindful of the well-being of the submissive
  • develop and use our intuition and common sense
  • walk with a radiant balance of humility and confidence

[Many thanks to Ms Marielle for her contribution to this list]

You are in the right place if Dominance IS

  • Your essence
  • In your soul
  • Not an act or game that you do in a scene or play at”