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Domme/sub 411 Sites
General D/s 411
History of BDSM
Kink + Sex Play Technique
Legal + Professional
Manners + Etiquette + Courtship Protocol
Play Questionnaires
Safety + Newbie Information
Safety vs. Abuse
Tantra & Eastern Practices
Tea Service
TG Support
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BDSM 411
General Informational Sites on BDSM
- Build Your Own BDSM Toys
Homemade Toys. Click on the gold dot. - Greenery Press: Publisher of BDSM Nonfiction and More
This is Lady Green’s company and it was contributed to LADs by Jay Wiseman. Excellent resource for the study of BDSM. - Homemade Toys at Frugal Domme
Look for ‘Domina’s Shopping and Home Manufacturing Tips’ - Jay Wiseman's BSDM Info Website
Contributed by the man himself (Jay Wiseman) to our yahoo club 🙂 Jay wrote ‘SM 101’, considered the Bible by some 🙂 - R.A.C.K. vs S.S.C.
his is an opinion in favor or R.A.C.K., if you are so inclined - Shaving
How to be hairless 🙂
BDSM Organizations + Resources
All are pansexual unless otherwise noted
- An International Directory for BDSM Groups
Very comprehensive - Black Rose
Arlington VA based non-profit organization which provides a forum for the many different expressions of power in love and play - British Site
#1 list of all the Resources, Contacts, Events in California. We in the community owe Caryl much appreciation. - Folsom Street Fair
A popular Leather fair in the San Francisco area - National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Incredible organization for our rights … political group - OCLA
Orange County based educational organization and information source for the Leather, S/M and Fetish community - RAWW
Los Angeles based Lesbian BDSM group … No males allowed - The Eulenspiegel Society
New York’s oldest and largest BDSM Education and Support Group
Chastity
Devices and Information
- CB-6000
Airport safe - Male Chastity – discussion site
From our original eClub - Mistress Lori's Locking Jewelry
AAA+++ rating by Ms Irish and her boy Jimmie 🙂
D/s Contracts
Information on D/s and M/s Contracts
- Ambrosio's Site
- BDSM Backroom
Scroll to the second contract - BDSM Contract
-From wizdomme.com - Contract by Malo
Based on the Screw the Roses Agreement - Contracts from Castle Realm
Castle Realm is a wonderful site - subsforDommes site
Discussion Groups + eMags + Story Sites
Informative + Supportive + Entertaining Sites
- Dominant Support Mentoring
Support & Mentoring for Dominants. Dominants & switches are welcome to discuss the lifestyle, training methods and mentoring. Not for submissives. Contributed by it’s founder, Sir Paul, aka Dreamknight - DsKiosk Power Exchange Resource Center
Lifestyle discussion list
Domme/sub 411 Sites
Specific to Fem Dommes and subs/slaves
- Disciplinary Wive's Club
Entertaining and Informative - Female Superiority by a therapist/Domme
Another site contributed by Mean Maxine - Real Women Don't Do Housework
Another posted to LADs by Mean Maxine - Submission
One Domme’s personal opinions - What is a Male Submissive?
Written by a male submissive named elfin 🙂
General D/s 411
Sites that explore the D/s lifestyle
- BDSM and D/s Life Articles
Excellent resource written by Mistress Steel - Castlerealm
One of the most popular and classic sites - Slavery
by s l a v e d a v i d s t e i n
History of BDSM
Old Guard, BDSM symbol, etc.
- BDSM Emblem
What does it represent? - European D/S 'Houses' & Families
by Tammad Rimilia - Guy Baldwin
The History of Leather Traditions - History of Flogging
by Che - Old Guard
by Gayle Rubin - Old Guard and Protocol
Good info site! - Old Guard, Houses and Gay Leathermen
LordSaber’s BDSM History page
Kink + Sex Play Technique
Resources sites on various forms of "Play"
- Bondage Techniques
Informative site by Dr. Bondage - Cunnilingus
Oral sex for Women 🙂 - E-Play & E-Stim Website Index
This site informs you how to play Safely with Electrical play - Feminization Site
‘Forced’ CD - For Sissy Maids
A lovely layout…with classified ads - G Spot 🙂
How to stimulate a Female’s ‘sweet spot’ - G Spot Massage
by Dr. Clarke - G Spot Play
and Female Ejaculation, etc. - San Francisco Sex Information
A free information and referral switchboard providing anonymous, accurate, non-judgmental information - Society for Human Sexuality
Excellent Information Site! - The rope bondage arts of David El
Information on Rope Bondage
Legal + Professional
Advice + Resources for the BDSM Community
- Health Care Without Shame
A handbook for the sexually diverse and their caregivers - Internet Legal Resource Guide
Links from 238 nations, islands, and territories - Kink Aware Professionals
These are Doctors, Psychologists, Lawyers, etc. that will not report you for having a bruised bottom - Law and BDSM
mbrosio is a Texas based group, but they have a lot of good general info here - Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law
Constitutions, Statutes, and Codes - NCSF Law Enforcement Outreach Program
Fighting for your rights
Manners + Etiquette + Courtship Protocol
How to behave 🙂
- Ceremonies and Rituals
Excellent Site … Again, Bravo, Domina! - Civility and Incivility in the Scene
- Courting a Dominant Lady
- Dating and Communication
From Ambrosio’s BDSM Site - Domina's Etiquette Tips
More from Domina 🙂 - Manners and Traditions
- On Being a Gentleman
- Play Party Etiquette
Appropriate and inappropriate behavior at Play Parties - Scene Etiquette
Play Questionnaires
A good communication tool
- BDSM & Fetish Checklist
Compilation List - Checklist
Another one 🙂 - John Pendal's suggested Top questions
Topics to cover from a Leatherman’s p.o.v. - Latches Checklist
Another Option - Ms Scream's Version
Another Option
Safety + Newbie Information
Sites with required reading
- Beginners (shared from JW's page)
See Jay Wiseman’s BSDM info website below - Dungeon Monitoring & General Safety Advice
Meeting Safety, Health and Safety from Ambrosio’s BDSM Site - Good site for newbies
Great Q+A link - Munches
From Lovely Caryl’s site (#1 reference for the California BDSM scene) - Newbie infromation site – EXCELLENT
One of the best sites for newbies! - S & M Dangers and Precautions
Compiled by Domina - Safety
Safety vs. Abuse
Information and Suppor
- Abuse vs. Erotic Power Exchange
What is VICSS? - BDSM vs. Abuse
American National Leather Association - D/s or Abuse?
Signs Your Partner May Be Abusive - Safety
LADs link - Wings of Fire
A porn free, safe information, educational resource center for abuse survivors in the BDSM lifestyle. Contributed by Qladyx
Tantra & Eastern Practices
- Breathing
- Gazing Into The Soul
Tantric exercise for bonding with your partner - Great Tantra Site
- Kundalini
By Kurt Keutzer - Kundalini Signs and Symptoms
Kama Sutra - Maithuna Tantra + The Kundalini Concept
by Octavian Sarbatoare - Please read this before practicing Kundalini
Kundalini awakenings can cause complications, so study thoroughly before going there! - Sacred Sex
- Sacred Sexual Practices (Chakras + Kundalini Spiral, etc.)
by Swami Nostradamus Virato - Tantra Sacred Loving Step by Step: How to Make Love For Hours
by Al Link and Pala Copeland - Tantra. org Basics
- Tantra.com
More 411 about Tantra - Tantric Sex
By Jeffery Tye - Tantric Teachings
Lots of goodies in here 🙂 - Tantric Techniques to Turn Women On
by Gloria G. Brame - Tantrism: An Overview
Hindu Tantra + Transmuting semen energy - Taoism
- The Heart Ceremony
Loving Yourself - The Kundalina Spiral
Tea Service
TG Support
Transgender support
- Gender Variant Phenomenon
More TG 411 - Transgender Info
Resources all over the US, our local one is Tri-ess Alpha Chapter