Next Munch


Sunday – April 12, 2020 – 2pm to 5pm


Topic: Mindfulness, Surrender, and Obedience


When we play with some of the stuff we play with in this lifestyle, it helps keep us in the moment. Actually knowing what we are “messing’ with in all this play, can help us use it way more effectively in moving towards a place of more happiness and less personal suffering. Also we will take a look at what spiritual surrender and obedience means as opposed to simply compliance and/or agreement in our authority exchange relationships.


Presenter:  Slave mikey


Slave mikey is a sissy slave now living in Joshua Tree California, near the Mistress he serves, Ms Bane Belladonna. Slave mikey sees this as a spiritual journey; continuously moving closer to a “nothing-ness” state of being through slavery. As a retired Master Gunnery Sergeant, a father of four amazing young adults, a grandfather, and mentor, slave mikey, has lived a full life.

Slave mikey loves to write and in that, can be a bit of a muse. In his presentations he likes to focus on the “why” behind so much of what we do in this lifestyle with an overall goal of helping to reduce personal suffering through teaching mindful and obedient behavior. Some have given him the title of the “woo” slave.

He has previously served as the Registrar and on faculty for Butchmanns Experience Weekends, Volunteer Coordinator for Sin-In-The-City in Las Vegas, Assistant Director for the South West Leather Conference and Security Lead for Behind Closed Doors. Slave mikey has presented classes all over the West Coast and has traveled from coast-to-coast in service to Female Dominants. While in Phoenix a few years back, he helped start a group named FLAER (Female Led Authority Exchange Relationships) at the Arizona Power Exchange. He was an active member in the Tucson/Phoenix Leather/Kink Community for many years. This past year he has moved his love for M/s and what we do to in this lifestyle to the high desert of California.

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LADs Munches will continue VIRTUALLY. LADs is putting all events involving physical interaction on hold. We are doing social distancing, but socially we will remain together and we will be able to be able to celebrate LADs’ 19th anniversary/birthday.

Find the application to the LADs Munch at You need to submit your application in advance of the Wednesday BEFORE the Munch.


Enjoy munching (BYO Food) and mingling before and after the presentation
Share your positive energy in a safe and warm environment
We always discuss the pursuit of happiness in the Domme/sub context.