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When: 2nd Sunday of every month 5:30pm – 12am


The LAIR welcomes LADs Official Card Carrying Members on VENUS NIGHT.   

For that we are grateful! 


Venus Night

(Hosted by LADs) is an evening devoted to the free expression of Females in Control… and those who enjoy them!

The Venus BDSM-D/s Party is a Female Dominant “scene-restricted” event; this means while all orientations can attend, scenes are restricted to those led by Female Dominants only.

Only C.C. Inc. Members/Benefactors & Their Guests will be allowed to attend!

Have your C.C. Inc. membership card ready to show at the door. If you are not a C.C. Inc member, you must be the guest of one, sign a release form and present valid picture ID at the front desk.

Adults 21+ Only

No ID = No Entry. No Exceptions.

Clean & Classy (or Fetish, of course).  When in doubt, dressy casual and black are good defaults. Once inside, get as naked as you wish.

Admission cover is $10. Platinum Members are free!

All Guests Must RSVP or Arrive With Their Sponsoring Member

The Gate Opens At 5:30 p.m. for the Party and it goes until midnight.

NO Male Topping or Domination on Venus night! Mutual Consent & Respect are Mandatory.  Keep negative energy and disrespect off the premises, please! The Lair is a large place with numerous areas to enjoy. If you see something (or someone) that “turns you off”… just move elsewhere! And if anyone, yes Anyone, disturbs you/your scene in a manner that violates any of the rules (posted in every room), please do not hesitate to notify staff at the front desk. Contrary to any illusion, no one is immune to what few rules we have for the enjoyment of all. No matter “who someone thinks they are” they’re treated equally regarding basic manners required at parties! All attendees deserve an atmosphere that accords with the expectations the rules create.

Exquisite Furniture! Over 35 Fabulous BDSM Stations to Explore!

Arrive Early to Feast on Tasty Treats… Always including Careena’s Chocolate Chip/Walnut Cookies!

Coffee, Coke/Diet Coke & Bottled Water are provided…. And Members are Welcome To Bring Their Refreshment Of Choice… There are wine/bottle openers, glasses, and an outdoor refrigerator for everyone’s use… The club does not provide alcohol; for those who plan to be drinking at Venus, please do so responsibly… There are also CD/tape/IPod players in most play areas… Bring your favorite music to scene with anywhere EXCEPT the main room!

All Illegal Drugs/Sex Solicitations Prohibited On Premises
(nor may anyone solicit/engage in “pay for play” at the Lair)

Come indulge your passions in the magical, unique energy of this most intimate, all-Female-Dominant-scene-controlled, BDSM atmosphere!

(c) 2001 – 2003 C.C.Inc. All Rights Reserved

LADS gatherings at the Lair:
LADs hosts Venus Night and often have our own gatherings there … a party within a party. You can sit and socialize on the large enclosed patio area, or quietly, respectfully and unobtrusively observe the power exchange that others engage in. It is all about consent and responsibility. No one is under any obligation to play with anyone else. Please note that the rules at the Lair are a bit different than other play spaces, so read them carefully at the door and be responsible for your choices, who you interact with and your personal actions. You will be treated like an intelligent responsible adult and trusted to read their rules and follow them. You can go to the person at the door and/or any LADs member to get assistance if you feel you need it. When you interact with LADs Ladies safe words will be honored. Not all Females at Venus night are LADs Ladies and may have their own way of conducting themselves. If you have been participating in LADs for any time at all, you know the art of negotiation, setting clear limits and safe words, disclosing your health and your right to ask the same. If you are not a member of the Lair and are being guested in, you need to stay close to the person that you are the guest of. You must be known to us, if you wish to be our guest. Remember you can always hang out with any available LADs member and ask them to watch over you, if you should feel the need for that. No one who is there with LADs should ever feel detached or alone, unless that is what they want 🙂

Location: The Lair <–click for more venue info
6628 Lankershim Blvd. North Hollywood, CA. 91606
Click HERE for door to door directions.


A Little Background History on Venus Night at the Lair
Years ago shortly after the Lair was opened, LADs suggested that the owners of the Lair have a night specifically for Femme Dommes and the subs who adore them. The owners, being honorable, fair and reasonable considered this. Venus is the result. It is open to all Female Dominants and submissives who adore them, in accordance with the above rules and regulations. The Lair provides us with a classy environment for responsible adults.

The Lair is the original play space in Southern California that offered a monthly evening
specifically for our orientation – Femme Dommes and submissives of all genders.

Side note:
You can go to their website at to see how to become a member of the Lair.  It is a very reasonable ONE TIME charge for a lifetime membership.

We at LADs like to support those that support us.

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